Do You Know How Much Your Baby Knows?

Welcome!

new-pics-089This blog is our effort to introduce our friends, family, and any who might be interested in understanding the benefits and value of teaching our littlest people how to speak through ASL (Sign).

Many people have questioned our use of Sign, concerned that our daughter will not speak as soon or as well as other children her age; she is hearing.  She is 17 months old and has around 400 signs, and about 30 spoken words (and often the words are spoken simultaneously with the sign).  I don’t know what the expected average is for a 17 month old female, but we’re very pleased with her ability to communicate.

Within this blog, I will detail the signs she is learning, the sequence and grouping patterns she demonstrates, and the techniques we use to teach her (and us) along the way.

We have learned right along with Cecily, and before long, we may all just have a second language!  Our intention, unlike many who only use signs for a short while before the child speaks, we will continue use of the language into fluency, permanently.

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If you have any questions or would like to just speak with us about our ASL journey, please feel free to contact us. And as Cecily gives us the opportunities, we will upload video segments of her signing in context to YouTube and link to them from this blog.

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Mama Played a Game Today

Today, I cannot talk.  I have no voice.  Literally.

I have been sick for a week and in the process, the mermaids have come and stolen my voice.  So, today I cannot speak loud enough for anyone to hear me, therefore I Sign.  And the coolest part is that Lily understands me.

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Are you mad, Lily?

Not only did she respond to the question, which was rhetorical, with the sign for “angry” or “grumpy”, but she decided a serious anger face, accompanied by a loud growl was necessary to get her point across.

 

The 2 year fits of frustration have begun.  You should see how silly I look splayed out flat on my tummy, wailing, while my arms and legs flap about!  Oh… wait.  Maybe it’s more entertaining to watch me watch her doing that.  

So far, there is an almost predictable pattern of her just plain losing it.  Scenario one: She just awoke from a nap that wasn’t long enough.  Watch out.  Scenario two: She is exhausted, has stopped signing, has stopped playing, has started whining and whimpering, and dragging her little body around (while still on foot) the entire house.. Here comes the.. blahahahahaha… yep.

So far, the best option is to just ignore her.  It seems that she almost needs these breakdowns. She is angry and frustrated and it isn’t directed at anyone, it’s directed at everyone and everything, including her own little self.

After a few minutes, she calms down and returns to normal, sometimes better.  She has never had one of these episodes out in public, always just at home, and if she continues that we will be just fine.  We just hope that whatever her little brain is struggling to connect during this time will connect soon because aside from the entertainment factor, it is actually sad and painful to watch her be so frustrated.

I will however continue to state that the Signing has decreased or all but eliminated tantrums in our situation.  She never flips out when there isn’t some other power at play (that being sleep depravation).  She gets mad once in a while when she doesn’t get what she wants, and she tells us about it, with words, not screaming or hitting, or whatever else is common for 18 month old children.

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Signing Time: Highly Recommended

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26 Letters, Is that all?

Lily has mastered the ability to say, sign, and recognize all 26 letters. She started demonstrating interest in the letters about three weeks ago and in that time has managed to learn them all, in upper case.

We have a few different flash card sets, she has 12″ foam letters, and, as she has discovered, the world is FULL of letters everywhere you look!

She recognizes the Sign for the letter and tries to sign it back. Most of her signs for letters are not really obvious, unless you have context, but the letters O, A, T, R, L, and Z are her favorite and she can sign them well enough that anyone can determine what she has signed.

Why are we teaching her letters so young?

I have had a few people express that they feel we are pushing her too hard and that we just expect too much of such a young child. So, to address this concern, as it will surface again, it should be made clear that we do not push herLily demonstrates interest in something and that is our cue to focus a bit more on it than other things for a few minutes, hours, or days. She determines what she wants to learn, and she also decides how much energy is devoted to it. She also often determines just HOW we focus, as in what activities are included.  Eventually we will begin to structure her learning times somewhat, but we are working to foster a mind that recognizes the possibility of learning ALL the time, not just when it’s time to, based upon a schedule.  This concept is one that comes naturally to the child, the work in fostering of the concept is to for her father and me.

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She is amazingly observant of her world, speaking or signing objects, feelings, and ideas all the time about everything around her.  Yes, all babies are the same, but most of those we are frequently in contact with cannot articulate nor communicate what is going on inside their head to the extent that Lily can.  She notices things while we are driving around town that I have never seen even though I have gone down that same street 100 times.

So, why letters?  Well, she started pointing them out when we would go to the store, read a book, get the mail, you name it.

I pulled out the cards that we play signing games with (they also happen to have letters on them), her foam letters – which she loves to throw at people, and we use the AquaDoodle and MagnaDoodle to guess what that letter is. Recently, we’ve begun writing together on the white board and on paper. She loves to have her hand held and guided around the medium with a crayon, marker, or whatever stylus is appropriate.

From letters to reading…

Yes, she is already learning letter sounds. This started a month or two ago, when one day she started to say MMMMMMM and pointed to the M on her book. From there she showed us the sounds for T, S, L, A, O, P, K… etc – my favorite is how she says X.

We started putting two letters together and then three, to spell words that she uses all the time. She isn’t “reading” the words, but she recognizes them, which at this stage proves quite interesting. We will continue to encourage letter sound combinations and phonics for the purpose of eventual “reading” skills, and will have the extra added benefit of her already having recognition of quite a few words.

She continues to prove that the stages and ages our society typically deems appropriate for educating is sadly delayed. We are collectively missing so much opportunity to utilize the natural window of our children’s development by sticking to the “proven” educational system that our society is tied to.

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Teaching Toddlers to Read… Frustration, Fits, & Farting

Can children learn more, sooner than our society in general seems to think?

In short, I believe so, yes.  And, I suppose, even if I didn’t believe, it wouldn’t matter because my daughter is in the process of proving that the generally accepted development milestones are well, wrong.

I would love to just BRAG AND BRAG about my kid, just like you would about yours, so go ahead!! Send me your comments and tell me all about your little one.  :)  And here’s my little plug –  Lily is learning so much, so fast, that I am struggling to keep up.  What are we doing to teach her, to help her learn?  What is our brilliant and ingenious technique?  Well…  scroll down.

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She can't read.. yet

Can a toddler recognize words or letters before 2 years of age?

Yes.

Want proof?  I’ll upload the video later today.

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For the last week or so we have been spelling little words on the fridge, paper, and she is working on writing the words on her little easle.  I hold her hand, which holds the marker, and we write letters & make shapes.  Then she draws a bit until she wants to taste the marker, which abruptly brings a new activity into focus.  

Today, we wrote H A T, among other words, and I asked her what it said.
“Hat” she responds, then signs “hat” and goes and picks one up and sticks it on her head. 
Smiling her little satisfied grin, she continued to draw a bit until asking me for “owl”, which we promptly wrote on her easle.  Contemplation fell over her face for a few seconds before she took off running, squealing for the dog.  Data input, processed, and stored. Done.

 

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A few minutes later, Cecily requested Signing Time, which she does about 9 am most mornings.  I started the ABC Time episode.  

She can sign the following letters mostly recognizably (to another person, besides just Mom):

L, O, Z, A, B, C, G

While the Signing Time episode plays, Lils will say either the letter name, make the sound, or mimic the sign; sometimes all three.

She can recognize the following letters signed, and will go pick them up (foam) off the floor or out of her box, if she is so inclined.

A, B, C, D, F, G, H, J, L, M, O, T, Z, and just today, V.

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So, the question is, how is she learning these? What have we done to teach her?
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She can’t read.. yet

Can a toddler recognize words or letters before 2 years of age?

Yes.

Want proof?  I’ll upload the video later today.

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For the last week or so we have been spelling little words on the fridge, paper, and she is working on writing the words on her little easle.  I hold her hand, which holds the marker, and we write letters & make shapes.  Then she draws a bit until she wants to taste the marker, which abruptly brings a new activity into focus.  

Today, we wrote H A T, among other words, and I asked her what it said.
“Hat” she responds, then signs “hat” and goes and picks one up and sticks it on her head. 
Smiling her little satisfied grin, she continued to draw a bit until asking me for “owl”, which we promptly wrote on her easle.  Contemplation fell over her face for a few seconds before she took off running, squealing for the dog.  Data input, processed, and stored. Done.

 

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A few minutes later, Cecily requested Signing Time, which she does about 9 am most mornings.  I started the ABC Time episode.  

She can sign the following letters mostly recognizably (to another person, besides just Mom):

L, O, Z, A, B, C, G

While the Signing Time episode plays, Lils will say either the letter name, make the sound, or mimic the sign; sometimes all three.

She can recognize the following letters signed, and will go pick them up (foam) off the floor or out of her box, if she is so inclined.

A, B, C, D, F, G, H, J, L, M, O, T, Z, and just today, V.

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So, the question is, how is she learning these? What have we done to teach her?
Next post…

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Phrasey-baby

Cecily began to put two and three word phrases together in this last week.  She turned 18 months two days ago.

Lils has a lot to say

Lils has a lot to say.

 

So far, we have “want orange juice please” (so I guess that is technically 4 words), “please gago there with bike” (the with part was left out), and last night while driving away from Grandma’s she signed “red balloons, red lights, car, go” referring to the brake lights and the balloons at the car dealer.

In reading what the typical 18 month old demonstrates as far as phrase communication, from what I can tell, most of them have the ability to offer 2 word phrases, though limited, by this age.  Finding an 18 month old who strings together 4 – 7 words logically seems to be rather rare, except if that 18 month old knows Sign.

And then there is the part about letters and reading… 

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TV

Educational programming claims to help improve a toddler’s early language skills. A recent study by Harvard Medical School proves that although watching T.V. does not improve a toddler’s development, it does not harm it either. Many parents find that watching T.V. with their toddler and discussing what they are watching helps toddlers to learn more and enjoy quality time with family members.

...proves that although watching T.V. does not improve a toddler’s
development, it does not harm it either.

Signing Time seems to fit into the category of extraordinary benefit.

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Choosing Developmentally Appropriate T.V. Shows for Toddlers
One of the biggest concerns parents have about toddlers watching T.V. is the increased risk of exposing them to violence. Even childrens’ shows can demonstrate unacceptable violent behavior that can cause a toddler to have nightmares and be overly aggressive. Watching T.V. with your toddler and carefully monitoring the shows he watches can help prevent your toddler from being exposed to inappropriate shows.


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